When is a child ready to start school? School starting ages and expectations vary widely across the globe. In Finland, the focus is on fostering independence and social skills, while in some countries, early academic milestones take center stage. In this blog post, I reflect on the concept of school readiness and share universal tips to help parents support their children during this important life transition. 

Recently, I had a fascinating conversation with a friend about preparing children for school. We come from opposite sides of the world, with vastly different cultural approaches to education. This conversation highlighted just how diverse the expectations for school readiness can be depending on where you live.

In Finland, where I live, formal schooling begins at age seven. Here, academic skills are not the primary focus for children starting school. The key expectation is that children can manage basic self-care tasks: knowing when to go to the toilet, dressing themselves, concentrating, and socializing with other children. Writing their name is one of the very few academic skills expected. The emphasis is on fostering independence and social skills rather than academic performance. That said, by the time children reach the first grade, many already know how to read and write, and for those who don't, these skills are typically learned during the first school year. This balanced approach allows children to develop at their own pace while ensuring they acquire essential academic skills early on

In contrast, my friend shared that in her country, formal education starts as early as age four. There, children are often expected to know their letters and numbers before starting school. This places a significant amount of pressure on both parents and children to meet these early academic milestones.

This conversation made me reflect on the differences in our approaches and whether there is a "right" age for children to begin school. The truth is, there isn't a single answer. Every child is unique, and their readiness for school depends on their individual development, personality, and environment.

However, I do believe there are universal ways that parents can help their children prepare for this big life transition, regardless of their age or the educational system.

Universal Tips to Prepare for School

Build Confidence and Independence in Your Child

One of the most important things parents can do is to help their children believe in their abilities. Encourage them to try new things, make mistakes, and ask for help when needed. This builds resilience and a sense of security that will serve them well in the classroom and beyond.

Teach Essential Life Skills for School Success

Before focusing on academic achievements, parents can prioritize teaching basic life skills. Whether it's dressing independently, using the toilet, or managing small responsibilities, these skills build a foundation for success in school.

Foster Social Skills for a Smooth Transition

Children who can share, take turns, and work cooperatively with others often have an easier transition into school. Helping your child navigate friendships and group settings can make the classroom environment feel less intimidating.

Encourage Curiosity and a Love of Learning

Rather than emphasizing rote learning, nurture your child's natural curiosity. Encourage them to ask questions, explore, and find joy in discovering new things. This love of learning will be a valuable asset as they grow.

Summary of School Readiness

Ultimately, school readiness is about more than meeting a checklist of skills. It's about equipping children with the tools they need to adapt, learn, and thrive in a new environment. Every child is different, and as parents, our role is to support and guide them through this important journey with patience and encouragement.

By focusing on confidence, independence, and curiosity, we can help our children embrace school with open arms—no matter where they are in the world.

Author: Olli Kamunen, CEO ONNI Education